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Are Canadians interested in Adopting Canadian Orphans?

Yes they are! 
Then why is it not happening?

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Established in 1965.
I recently discovered this fund.  It is a fund available to orphaned children who wish to attend school.  Let's quickly define 'orphan'  - it is a child who has no parents available to him or her; an abandoned child, what ever the circumstance.

Remember just fifteen minutes a day of kind loving help with a child's school work will consistently bring up their grades by two points; for example from a C to an A.

I welcome your thoughts and experiences - write me at orphan-book@pobox.com
Canadians are interested in adopting
Canadian children

As an advocate for orphaned children in Canada, I am compelled to ask:

``Why is it that a Canadian couple finds it easier to adopt four overseas children (aged 1 – 11) rather than to adopt a single Canadian child in Toronto, Halifax or Vancouver?''

 

Here is what one of my readers has to say:

"I am a mom, and you know what, it is the only thing in my life I have the confidence to say I do damn well.  My husband and I thrive in the joys and challenges of parenthood.

 

My mother died when I was 12 and I was adopted by a stepmother - horrible experience.  Nonetheless I always believed I would adopt.  My husband and I saw ourselves with 2 pregnancies and an adoption.  Well after 1 pregnancy adoption found us.  It was physically very risky to enter another pregnancy and we saw this as a sign to get the adoption moving. 

 

We are young, very well educated, financially secure and proven to be good parents.  When we announced we had been approved for adoption EVERYONE asked when we would be going to China, and when I stated we were staying home I got looks and comments ranging from, surprise, confusion and misunderstanding.  I even had someone ask if we could not afford international.

 

I work in an inner city, for a family centre that assists parents with many struggles and for some that includes keeping their children.  Their is nothing pretty or nice about these circumstances.  I believe whole heartedly in the preservation of families, but the reality is some times it just can not happen.  I know the issues and I felt how we can go away when there are children here.  To this day I know this is my true heart speaking, but 2 years into public adoption I am so much more clearer on why families go international.

 

This morning my cousin emailed me a picture of her new 6 week old daughter from Ethiopia.  She was matched on Friday.  I cried so hard I had to leave work.  I just broke.  I AM TIRED!!!  When I called my husband I said, we have not made the right choice, we are hurting ourselves with this process.  We are persevering the system and fighting social stigmas of adopting a child from foster care.  I feel like by the time our child arrives I will be worn thin.

 

Reading your article brought some solace to this weary mother today.  Thank you, you are making a difference.  If you are looking for assistance – contact us at XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX.  I would be happy to help.  Just let me know.  I just wanted to share our story, like so many stories you have heard.

 

lisa

 



What are the statistics?

Stats Canada has no statistics on orphaned (abandoned)children in Canada. I've obtained data from the several Canadian
adoption organizations and agencies. There are 88,000 children in foster care in Canada (I believe the number is
significantly higher because there are 30,423 children in
foster care in Ontario alone and the numbers are similar in Alberta); of these, 49 per cent are "Crown Wards"- looked
after by the Government.

Several Canadian families have applied for orphanage status
(and were denied) “because they foster more than 100 kids and often juggle 5 or more at a time”.

 

It is far too easy to remove children from their homes.
25,000 are in foster care because their mothers are in jail - often on minor charges while legal processes delay.
Abandonment issues are not recognized.

Thousands of children in foster care are waiting for adults
to "roll the dice" on their future.

 

The cost of one child in foster care for one year is $40,000.

“Forty three per cent of these children experience violence in the foster care setting.”  They exist every city in Canada.  Their plight has not been brought to public attention.
They are children who have fallen through the cracks.

 

There are 22,000 children waiting for adoption in Canada. 
Every year the number of adoptions decline.  There are only
1700 adoptions a year – these are approximate numbers as they are gathered in a willy nilly fashion from the different
areas in separate provinces. 

This data is 4 years old!

 

The Federal government must become involved in the welfare of our children.

 

I suggested this in a letter to Prime Minister Steven Harper; his office replied saying “Adoption in Canada is a matter of provincial jurisdiction”.

Not only that, Mr. Harper recently chaired a proposal to make overseas adoptions easier while regulations for adoptions of Canadian Children lie stagnant and fraught with red tape -
and our children languish in abandonment.

In my view if you can't understand and fix what's in your own back yard, don't go to the neighbours and try to fix theirs.

 

The fact that there are 5 – 7 million hits on each Canadian Adoption website describes the huge interest in adoption in Canada;  

Then why aren’t there more adoptions?

 

Every day people come to tell me their story - how they
really tried to adopt a Canadian orphan, but the process was
too filled with red tape:  "it was discouraging",
"It was slow and arduous", and "It was insulting".  
They all say the same thing - "we went elsewhere" or
"we gave up altogether"; "maybe we'll get pregnant".

 

 

We have statistics on all the orphaned children in foreign countries but we do not have Statistics on Canadian orphaned children. If you can't measure it - you can't manage it.

 

The Canadian system favours support of foster care rather than adoption – there is no support for adoptive parents.

It costs money to look after an abandoned child
(psychologically and medically); why not give to adoptive parents $1000 per month rather than $40,000 to foster one
child.

 

There are many potential loving adoptive parents in Canada and there are many Canadian orphaned children waiting to be adopted.

The Canadian adoption process needs to be made easier
throughout Canada. Let’s get working to unite them in loving
and happy homes.

 

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